I'd say just because they can generate more AS then other pure profession doesn't make their total end game AS insane. It would be great to quit hearing about it but I know that will never happen.
I'll show you a side by side comparison of an empath, a ranger, and a warrior with base line training only. I also decided to include sorcerers because they generate the lowest self spelled AS among the pure professions.
Empath | Ranger | Warrior | Sorcerer | |||||
Skill bonus | 201 | 302 | 302 | 201 | ||||
Combat maneuver bonus | 51 | 51 | 101 | 51 | ||||
Spell bonus | 15(1109) | 10(606) | 50(425) | |||||
15(211) | ||||||||
25(215) | ||||||||
55(1130) | ||||||||
Bonding | 10 | |||||||
Weapon specialization | 10 | |||||||
Surge of strength | 16 | |||||||
Totals | 362 | 363 | 439 | 302 |
I left out STR bonus, society bonus, and weapon enchant because these things can all be equal. As you can see the ranger is 1 point ahead of an empath and that they still have 101 ranks of combat maneuvers to learn. Most, if not all, can be picked up pre-cap it would just depend on the rangers choice of training with their "extra" training points. You can also see that warriors have a large margin over empaths and that empaths have quite the lead over sorcerers.
>>She can use a THW and kill stuff even with spell 102 in effect!!! Insane AS, insane DS; what's not to like?
The thing is though, there is a huge difference between being able to kill something, and killing it effectively. It is great that you enjoy your characters though as that is the point of the game. But I don't really think empath AS is that insane compared to what a real weapon using profession can achieve, or compared to what an empath can do with their spells.